Awesome Moms

Supermom or Awesome Mom?

Are you confused as to whether you are Supermom or Awesome Mom? Since there is no such thing as the former, you must be the latter.

Say it right now, aloud:

I’m an Awesome Mom!”

Does that make you uncomfortable, or perhaps it doesn’t feel like the truth?

Let me clear it up for you. You are an Awesome Mom. How can I say that without knowing you?
Because you are reading this right now. That makes you the kind of mom who tries to find a better way for your beloved children. Regardless of how busy you are, or how overwhelming your life is, you are taking the time to seek solutions. That’s Awesome! And, so are you.

Awesome Moms Tell Your Tweens + Teens Walking the Walk

When Caffeine Becomes Creepy: 10 Surprise Sources

Caffeine, the wonder-addiction. Why do I say that? Because by slipping it into foods you consume, the company creates a need in you. You have to have more of the product to feel energized so you can compete at work or school. Basically, you are being trapped into becoming a permanent customer. It’s the same reason why Coca-Cola used to lace its products with cocaine until it was forced to stop. That’s when caffeine becomes creepy.

Nowadays, caffeine is the drug of choice. Did you know that chocolate has added caffeine? You can find it listed in the ingredients as Other Flavors or Spices or, my favorite gmo label Personal-Impact.orgmisnomer, Natural Flavorings (which are all code for “we aren’t going to tell you what’s in here”). According to Honor Whiteman in Medical News Today, so are things like jellybeans, waffles, chewing gum and syrup. That’s crazy (in my humble opinion).

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Girls Who Look Like Their Daddies

parenting teensLittle girls automatically want to look like their beautiful mother. Life is much simpler if they resemble the lead female in the home than for Girls Who Look Like Daddy. However, if your daughter resembles her handsome dad, it can mess with her self-concept. Well-meaning relatives who pinch her toddler cheeks and say, “Oooh, you look just like your daddy!” don’t understand that it matters to her little girl self to be compared to a man.

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The Parent-Teen Tango

I’m pretty sure whoever coined the phrase, “It takes two to tango” was talking about The Parent-Teen Tango, specifically the mother-daughter relationships during the tumultuous teens. The tango is a dance between two conflicted people, filled with frustrated love and human fatality.

“In a relationship, you can try and please the other person 100% of the time thinking that that’s what’s going to make the relationship successful but in reality you’ll end up not only with your needs unmet, but also resenting the other person for not appreciating all your sacrifice and your compromise.

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7 Tips On How To Pull Off A Presentation

It’s Presentation Time! (Yay!)

Does the idea of doing a presentation make you want to run and hide? Perhaps your grades depend on a dazzling oral demonstration of your knowledge, or the direction of your job hangs in the balance. My advice?

Be prepared, and don’t sweat the small stuff.

How would you like 7 Tips On How To Pull Off A Presentation? Here’s where you begin:

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Talking To Teens: Conversation Starters and Stoppers

How would you like to have free-flowing conversations with your teen? If you already find talking to teens easy, use the topics below for additional ideas.
If, on the other hand, you are trying to engage a reluctant teenager in conversation, try this:

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8 Hours For Everything Else

To paraphrase Jamie K. Schmidt from her fabulous workshop on Writing Novellas, there are 24 hours in a day. That breaks down into:

8 hours of sleep

8 hours of work

8 hours for everything else

8 hours for everything else?

That’s huge! That’s 56 hours a week! That’s more than enough time to fit in everything, including writing and exercise (and laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, and most importantly, nurturing the important relationships in your life).

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10 Fun Fantastic Fabulous Activities

10 Fun Fantastic Fabulous Activities, and not your every day nice weather activities, can make the difference between the 2017, and a Fun Fantastic Fabulous 2017.

Yes, you may have an after school job, and a ton of homework, but there’s still plenty of time to have some fun. You can approach every weekend wondering how you are going to spend it, or you can put these 10 Fun, Fantastic and Fabulous Activities (albeit, a bit oddball) into your schedule.

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Reframe Your Diet: 5 Eye-Openers That Can Change Your Life

Reframe Your Diet: 5 Eye-Openers Can Change Your Life

Let me begin by saying…

You Can Do It! I Know You Can!

You just have to reorient your thinking so it enhances your success. practice Start here to reframe your diet:
A habit is something you do automatically, without thinking, so make your goal to habitually have a healthy diet. They say it takes 60 days to form a habit.
If that’s true, dig out your calendar and count off 60 days. Mark that date as the day you will be living with your new habits. All you need to succeed is to have your eyes opened.

Eye-Opener #1:

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Do As I Say, Not As I Do

Mom, as a child did you sneak into your mother’s room to explore the wonders it held? Did you try on her jewelry? Play with her mascara? Totter around on her heels?

If you did, you know from personal experience teenage girls are eager to emulate their mothers, the most important female figure in their lives

Your precious girl wants to experience life as you do, and her teenage brain makes her want it NOW. She wants your high heels, your m

ake-up, your perfume, your confidence, your maturity. She wants it all. If you do it, your daughter copies it. If you live it, it must be desirable, so she wants it for herself.

She wants to be you. Pay attention to what you do, because she watches everything.

If you are the living, breathing example your daughter follows, have you examined the lessons you inadvertently teach her? Let’s take an objective judgment-free look at yourself. What does she see?

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The Inner Game Of Tennis Is Played Against Yourself


Player A swats the tennis ball out of bounds. “Oh no! You stupid imbecile! How could you miss such an easy shot? Stupid! Stupid! Stupid!” cries Player A, angry with herself. That’s one way to handle the Inner Game of Tennis.